Wed 15 Oct 2008
A great man passed from the earth on a dreary Tuesday Morning. Donald Eugene (Ducky) Fridline was a tremendous family man. Marrying his baby daughter, Patti, I consider myself very lucky to know Ducky the past 20 years.
Ducky was born on the East Side of Flint in 1929 and raised in a tiny house on Maryland Avenue. One of 10 Children, they stayed very close throughout their lives, all settling in the Flint Area. One brother, Herb, was killed in a Motorcycle accident at age 18. The other five brothers all served in the US military, Ducky spending his time as a Navy Corpsman. Now that Ducky has passed, only two of the ten children are still alive.
Ducky returned from the Navy in 1952 and married Jeanie. He got a job at Buick City and she at AC. They bought a house on the East Side of Flint in 1955 having two small boys at the time. They ended up having eight children in all. They worked different shifts so that they could handle the day care and raised all of the kids in the house which was not bigger than 1000 square feet.
An Avid Hunter, Ducky bought a large parcel near Manton, MI in 1970. Nicknamed “Bugatussle,” it became Ducky’s favorite place in the world. The small cabin that was built shortly after the purchase grew with many additions to a place were over 20 could sleep comfortably. Hunting, exploring, riding ATV’s and enjoying the 80 acres became a passion for Ducky, his friends, and family.
Ducky faced several challenges in his life, and approached them all with vigor. He did not graduate high school in his youth, but went to adult education to get his diploma well after his 50th birthday. A smoker for years, he had his last cigarette in 1987 when a major stroke came close to killing him. The stroke left him permanently disabled as he lost use of his right hand and would drag his right extremities for the rest of his life. In 1990 Ducky would battle and survive Prostate Cancer.
In 2001, the love of his life, Jeanie, passed away after a long illness. I and most of those close to Ducky, thought there was no way that he would be able to live on his own. He proved us all wrong, taking care of himself and doing tasks that he hadn’t done since his stroke. He was determined that he would not need assisted living, and he didn’t.
After having worsening back pain, Ducky was diagnosed with bone cancer in late June. After battling for a while, he entered the wonderful Avalon Hospice facility on September 23rd. Ducky told his children not to feel sorry for him, he had a great life and everyone was going to die at some point.
Ducky, you did live a great life, and your legacy will live on for a long time. You made those closest to you better with the example you set. You will be missed.
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October 16th, 2008 at 8:15 am
Sam,
The last time I saw Mr. Fridline was at your old house, at a family gathering. Navigating through a imposing thicket of branches off the Fridline tree – and guarding my plate of food – I saw Mr. Fridline waving me over to sit next to him.
I truly enjoyed my experience with him that day and really admired him. Though I had met him a few times before, that day he really made a strong impression on me.
We had a wonderful conversation about a bunch of things. He didn’t ask questions just to keep a conversation going, he really cared. He shared with me his story. He had a great sense of humor about himself and his kids, never mean-spirited and always lighthearted. When he got zinged he zinged them right back, and then came that wink and a smile. The strong bonds he had with his family – his children, their spouses and their children – could not have been more evident: this was a man who truly loves his family. Knowing just some of “his story”, it’s not surprising how he provided for his family, doing what he needed to do, without regret or complaint. No entitlement, no bitterness, just a glow. He had everything he needed on your back deck that day, and I am blessed that I was welcomed into his world.
God bless him and may you all continue to feel the warmth of his wink and smile.
October 16th, 2008 at 8:54 am
Thanks for the comments Dennis. You summarized Ducky beautifully.